reasons for me refusing to go to college:
- the term “bachelor’s degree”. there is serious need of some gender neutrality here and it’s disgraceful that we still use this obsolete language in the 21st century. if you’re a proud, unapolagetic owner of a “bachelor’s degree” you need to be put down.
Tip to other Americans:
Stop saying “I want to visit/live in Europe”. You cannot, and should not romanticize and fetishize non-Western cultures. Stick to our own.
thank you for the tip, fellow american. i will never even think…
You know what makes me the saddest about Lilo and Stitch?
When she gets kicked out of the dance class, she’s the only person we know for sure is native Hawaiian in her age bracket in the class.
There’s Myrtle, who is white, Elena who is white (f she’s the blonde one), Theresa who’s background is unclear, and Yuki who is implied, based on the name and the large Japanese population in Hawaii, to be Japanese.
She is taking a dance class of a dance traditional to her people.
And she is kicked out primarily because a white girl, Myrtle, is bullying her.
How fucking sad is that?
This always got me about the movie. I always
IN THE FACE AND EXISTENCE
Also, the hula dancing runs in the family, as we find out in the sequel that her mother was a dance champion. It’s clear in this scene that the deaths of her mother and father are still fresh in her mind and I think the dancing reminds her of her mother and happier times. Maybe they practiced together frequently? Idk, it’s just the vibe I get. That Lilo is there to do her mother proud, rather than to make friends and socialize like the others there.
Her face says it all. Look at how happy she is!
Everyone who liked this, everyone who validated this, you need to unlike it right NOW.
As a Native Hawai’ian, I have a problem with this post.
A fucking big problem.
First off, Hawai’i is massively diverse. Massively. Almost no one is pure Hawai’ian. The speculation that Lilo is at all pure or the only part Hawai’ian is laughable. There’s a very very slim margin that she would be at all. Secondly, just because it’s “not confirmed” doesn’t mean those girls aren’t. There are thousands of Japanese-Hawai’ian girls. Thousands, and thousands more of even more mixed races who are Hawai’ian. My sister is a shade away from blonde, and as pale as snow white, and she is just as half-Hawai’ian as I am - even though I look more “authentic”. I know many beautiful Hawai’ian girls with clouds of red hair and creamy complexions from mixed bloodlines. If you want to get “authentic” and go off of Lilo’s appearance, to us locals, she looks half-Asian. She looks definitely hapa at best.
It angers me beyond all reason that this has reposts, reposts from people who don’t understand the Native Hawai’ian culture, much less the culture that sprung from it which envelops our islands. You are reposting blind ignorance. Who are you to decide who looks more Hawai’ian? Who are you people to assume our culture and that this girl takes it more seriously than the others? Because she gets a backstory?
The amazing thing about my culture, MY culture, is that hula opens its arms to all. All children here are welcome to it. It is passed on to them and their blood does not dictate their passion nor their eligibility. “Lilo is there to make her mother proud, rather than to make friends and socialize”. Do you have any idea what a halau is? You don’t, no, none of you do. You have no idea what a halau is. A halau is your family, a halau are your friends, your only social circle when you are fully dedicated. My mother IS one of the queens of hula who trained under Maiki Aiu and she still talks to her hula sisters daily. They were part of her life. It isn’t enough to just hula, or learn it, and put blinders on the sides of your head. If you don’t live it with your hula sisters and brothers, then your story is nothing. You go through motions and you tell no stories.
Don’t try for one moment, to make that scene out like it was Lilo being bullied by a white girl. Yes, Hawai’i is still being raped by the ideologies of white appropriation, but do not for one moment think that these girls may not be Hawai’ian. Do not think for one moment that you have the right nor the knowledge to sweep onto the internet and start reposting like a fucking idiot about a culture and mixed bloodlines and races you don’t really understand aside from “the white man hurt them”. You damage people like my sister, like my cousins, all equally as proud and maka’ainana as I, simply because they don’t look like me.
You have no right to use this scene as commentary, because you have not even a shade of an idea of the damage you do with it.
We saw Wreck-It Ralph this morning and I loved it! I also loved Paperman, the short that played before the film. The animation was just stunning. I may or may not have shed a few tears just from the sheer beauty of it all.
oh my god can we stop
a bit of accidental lipstick on a sheet of paper gets played off as flirting because they interacted for ten seconds
he then feels so entitled to her attention that he thinks he should interrupt her job interview with paper airplanes
jeopardizing her future employment
as if women don’t have enough trouble in the workplace ugh
BUT THEN OH MAGIC HAPPENS BECAUSE HE WAS SO NICE
SUCH A NICE GUY
BY WHICH I MEAN A TOOL WHO FEELS ENTITLED TO A WOMAN’S ATTENTION/AFFEECTION
this may not seem like much but it lays the groundwork for worse things like stalking and harassment
acts of violence commonly portrayed as romantic when men do them to women
young boys and girls are internalizing this shit
it’s like Rape Culture Lite and this short made me SO uncomfortable
This so much
1. We don’t know that that was an interview, it looked more like a regular meeting from the ways she’s pointing at things on the desk and looking bored and annoyed in some shots
2. He’s thinking this is the last chance he’s going to get to see her again, so he’s basically trying to get enough attention from her to wave at her briefly
3. She is clearly interested at their first encounter
4. How is trying to get her to look his way for like 5 seconds an act of violence
Like seriously I take rape culture pretty seriously and I’ve experienced unwanted attention, and there’s no way to tell whether or not he would back off if she didn’t show that she was interested. It doesn’t seem to me that he feels entitled to anything, he’s just trying to catch a tiny chance to wave at her and show her he remembers her.
why does everyone who defends this short assumes she’s interested? Simply glancing at a man does not mean you’re interested in him. (CAUSE THEN I BEEN INTERESTED IN TOO MANY MEN!!)
If you take rape culture seriously and then take in seriously and look on how you’re promoting this.
Stalkers can be ‘cutesy’, they can use justifications as being ‘romantic’, guys THINK they’re being nice when they sit next to you (even though you don’t want to), when they touch you, when they get close to you. They’re being polite and decent, that’s the way of thinking. That’s rape culture
We cannot let this go on.
Sometimes I think Tumblr is just the worst place
you can’t oppress the majority
You can’t oppress the majority
YOU CAN’T OPPRESS THE MAJORITY
YOU CAN’T OPPRESS THE MAJORITY
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